Men Talking Mindfulness

Revisiting 'Code to Joy' with Jon and Will

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In this special redo episode of Men Talking Mindfulness, co-hosts Jon and Will delve deeper into the life-changing insights from the bestselling book “Code to Joy” by Dr. George Pratt and Dr. Peter Lambrou. Last week, we had the pleasure of having Dr. George Pratt on the show to discuss the pivotal strategies detailed in “Code to Joy”, a beacon for many in finding harmony and joy in their lives. While we faced some technical issues during the initial discussion, we believe the teachings and strategies delineated in the book are too important not to share with our audience. Hence, we are revisiting this topic to give it the justice it deserves. Join us as we unpack: • Microtraumas: How small, recurrent traumas can accumulate over time, affecting our wellbeing and happiness. We delve into how to identify and address these microtraumas to pave the path to a healthier mental state. • Personal Transformation: Building on insights from the book, we discuss strategies for personal growth and transformation, helping you to break free from the barriers holding you back from achieving true joy. • Mindful Exercises: The episode will share potent exercises and methodologies described in “Code to Joy”, guiding you to reset your emotional baseline and foster a deep connection with your true self. • Question and Answer Segment: We open the floor to our listeners, addressing your questions and providing personalized insights on how to apply the principles of ‘Code to Joy’ in your daily life. Join Jon and Will on this journey to joy and self-discovery as they dissect the practical tips and exercises from “Code to Joy”, empowering you to heal from microtraumas and embark on a path of genuine happiness. So, tune in for an enlightening session of Men Talking Mindfulness, where we foster a community of joy, health, and mindfulness, one episode at a time.

(00:01:31) The fog of distress

(00:07:44) Micro traumas and their impact

(00:10:59) Lack of language and consciousness

(00:12:15) Micro traumas and their impact

(00:16:09) Childhood experiences and self-defense

(00:22:02) The conscious versus the subconscious mind

(00:24:12) Limiting beliefs and traumatic resonance

(00:27:22) Formation of neural connections

(00:31:26) Limiting beliefs and safety

(00:35:06) Feeling worthless and powerless

(00:39:05) The victim mentality

(00:44:01) Being seen and understood

(00:48:11) Middle child dynamics

(00:51:23) Foster care and overcoming betrayal

(00:55:07) Lack of trust and suspicion

(00:58:44) Trust and self-doubt

(01:04:15) I am bad

(01:06:32) Deep connection and self-limiting beliefs

(01:10:51) Neuromuscular feedback and self-limiting beliefs

(01:14:35) Repatterning and empowering beliefs

(01:19:37) Self-acceptance and self-efficacy

(01:21:07) Self-acceptance and personal growth

(01:25:25) Spreading mindfulness and joy

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